Wondering what to do when you miss someone, realize that moping around is not going to help. Instead, get out and expand your brain to truly stop missing someone.
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I miss someone I really loved, she didn't feel the same way. She was the main reason why I made it through school and I don't even know if she is staying in the district. I'm out for summer break and I think I'm losing my mind. My last day was friday and i don't know what to do. I gave her my number in her yearbook but I'm scared she doesn't even care enough to call me or text me. HELP ME. I have been CRYING over her and I have no one left to talk to. :( Her name was Anna Claire.
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I used to love this girl in my class. Her name was Anna Claire. She didn't feel the same. She was the reason I made it through 4th grade. I don't even know if she is staying in the same district. It is the first couple of days of summer break and I am so depressed and scared that I won't see her again. HELP ME!!! I have been CRYING because of this. I miss her so much. I'm starting to have dreams about her. I remember the way she used to look at me and smile. I remember the day we met. I've been PRAYING for us to run into each other this summer but I know deep down that it won't happen. I gave her my number in her yearbook but she hasn't sent me anything. I'm starting to think she doesn't care. I've been trying to contact her but the only thing I've found is her music.ly. The worst part is that I have no one to tell all of this to. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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I've had a best friend for a while and recently I've done some shitty things that made him not want to stay with me anymore. I try to reach out to him everyday and he ignores it.
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one of my friends moved about an hour away a few months ago. For the first month we talked a lot on skype. We would have calls lasting upwards of an hour and message each other almost every day. And then I went to her house one weekend. Spent the night Friday and stayed most of Saturday. She's been ignoring me since and I asked her if she was mad a month or so ago and she said no, and we had a short conversation, and she's gone right back to ignoring me. i miss her so much.
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I have read a few of the comments and one thing that stands out is the palpable pain that people experience when they miss someone. I still miss all the people who have passed from my life but I notice that things get better as time marches on. I wonder if those who are still experiencing pain from the separation from their loved one have some things to say. I would say - be brave and write a practical letter setting out your issues that you are having trouble with and moving on from. If it was an old boyfriend or girlfriend - tell them - they may have the key to release you - even if it is in just a couple of words or a paragraph or two. If you can't contact them - then write down all the things that are making you sad and discuss with family or friends or psychologist or read scripture to find your answer to release you. I am missing my pet cat who has passed and I cry sometimes.
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My best friend is in a rehab hospital and I cannot contact him through any means (I can't even write him) while he is in this program. I'm having a really hard time with this. Tho he isn't gone from my life, I remind myself everyday that he is getting much needed help. I pray for him everyday. I really miss him tho and it's very hard. He cannot have any outside contact because he needs a distraction-free environment
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Recently, my very close sibling left for college. Obviously, my family knew that this was going to happen, so we "tried" to get prepared. My sibling entered the military, and is unable to have contact with the outside world for seven weeks. I know that it is only a short period of time, but unable to call nor talk to my sibling is very painful. But sending letters is the only contact I am aloud, even though I am aware that my sibling will never have time to send back mail. This article is very helpful, except a few steps. The step to kind of "replace" your loved one is a great idea, but it may also remind you of them. Although it may be fun to do the same activities with a friend, do not forget the loved one, and remember the good memories. Great Job!
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my ex told me to stay out of his life so he could move on. I am sick to my stomach many months later reliving it all, crying as I write this I wonder if I will ever be okay. This seems so dramatic I know, but I am still heartbroken. No one knows me as well as he did, even if it was the fact that he knew the ugly things that I hide- something I hated him for but now really appreciate the authenticity of. Struggling for sure.
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I recently fell in love when I was studying abroad in New York. However, when I graduated my visa expired and I had to leave the country. We did a lot of great things together to celebrate the last days we had. But that only made me realize more that I wanted to stay and see what would come out of this. I had an option to stay 7 months longer a bit before graduating but I didn't realize that I wanted to stay back then. Now I'm home and I'm not aloud to come back. The fact that I'm regretting not doing anything earlier makes me angry everyday. I still love him but we weren't far enough to take serious consequences such as him coming here or marry in order to be together despite of the visa problem (I can not go work there for the coming 2 years) we never broke up. Because all of this I feel no closure and more regret then letting go or being able to move on. I hope someone has tips for that.
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I have a friend that is going on a trip for 3 weeks, he's in this program thing and he's going to be with new people he's never met before from all over the country, and while he's on the trip he can't have any sort of technology with him, he can't have his phone with him at all. I'm not going to be in contact with him for those 3 weeks sadly, and saying that breaks my heart, because I have feelings for this person and I don't want this person to forget about me which I think is what's hurting me the most, I know I'm going to see him when he gets back, but I can't stop thinking about him and I'm truly heart broken.
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