Wondering what to do when you miss someone, realize that moping around is not going to help. Instead, get out and expand your brain to truly stop missing someone.
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I fell in love with a guy, he's a mexican immigrant of about 12 years (came here at 6 and is now 18) and he was supposed to move to mexico at the end of the school year. I've been in love with him for almost 3 years. About 2 and a half years after I first started liking him, we dated from march til june. I loved him more than anything and still do. In june he told me it would be a good idea if we started detaching so it wouldn't hurt so much when he left. I argued it would hurt even more. He disagreed, and its helpful to know that he has a very hard time showing emotion. When he knows he will get hurt, he supresses them until he's just numb. After we had that conversation, he started telling me I always criticized him and was "too silly" (I try to make humor in everything its just how I cope with life sometimes). He told me because of this we were better off apart anyway. Now he's cut me off almost completely. We never talk whereas before we could talk about anything for hours. I dont know how to deal with my best friend and one of the few good things in my life being gone. He never says more than two words to me. He acts like an asshole and as if he's bothered by me when all I am is kind to him, yet all I feel is bitterness and anger because I still feel so much stifled love for him. He gave me courage and confidence, allowed me to express the love I'd felt for so long, and was always there to protect me when I needed him. Now its like he's not even him anymore. He literally is a different person. After me, he changed his clothes, started smoking weed again (which I didn't make him stop doing in the first place, I never made him stop doing anything), and got all new friends. He won't give me the time of day. He was my best friend for so long and its like he felt nothing just leaving me. I dont know what to do. My friends help but theyre all so busy. My life feels like shit all the time unless I'm distracted, which I have to do constantly just to numb the pain. I have no closure because he never gave me a real reason to leave me. His family is staying until fall now. If he hadnt ended things, we could have gone through this tough situation together. Now, if he even feels anything through all of the walls he builds up to avoid getting hurt, we have to go through this alone. It's like one day I woke up and he had just left. I always thought we were so good together, people always said we seemed so happy. I never doubt that he loved me, I just dont know when he stopped, or if he ever did.
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I was at a camp and I met this girl who is really popular and I thought she would never notice me but I was playing basketball and she saw that I was pretty good and we started playing and on the next day we started hanging talking having good times I only see her at church and I almost never have a chance to talk to her and I'm scared she will forget me it stop liking me. What do I do
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I passed my 12 this yr and I really miss my teachers especially my favourite one can't disclose his name he is my crush too l madly miss him yr
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I've been dating this boy for almost 14 months now and there is no denying that I'm hopelessly in love with him. However, due to some very stupid choices we made along the way, both of our families have disapproved continuing our relationship. It hurts like crazy that we both still love each other but are forced to be separated. I'm terrified of what lies ahead and if his feelings for me will continue to grow or fade. I guess the fact that I have no idea what lies ahead is what scares me the most. I really hope it all works out.
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I was at camp and met this councilor who was nice,funny and fun to play or just talk with.But I had to go on vacation so I missed week 5 of camp.I said Bye but I really miss him and I don't think I'll ever see him again...
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I met this girl in France last year and it was amazing weirdly enough she lived about 20-25 minutes away from my house. So after the holiday we got in contact we spent hours and hours on FaceTime to each other. From August to September it was amazing we started to like each other, then one day we decided to meet up, so we did. It was so awkward I didn't know what to say we were out for around 1 hour or 2. After that day she never messaged me again I've tried to message her asking if we are mates and she says yes all the time. I ask to meet up she says no I ask to FaceTime she says no. She's out of my life. The date today is 3rd of August 2016 and funnily enough tomorrow is one year since we met. I still have hope that we will be friends because I am moving to her area next year. It's hard writing this reflecting on my past I wish I did some things differently. I think about her every day and night and wonder what could happen. But for anyone out there and reading this, here's some advice. Don't think about the future stop worrying about the past live now live in the moment. Here's my story. Thank you.
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Hey there well quite a long time ago I went out with this guy who I had known for a while and we were rlly good friends, but overtime he didn't rlly talk to me and I had no idea why because we always used to talk. Then one day he told me that we should break up because apparently he wasn't ready for a girlfriend and that he doesn't want one. I had no idea why he decided this, he was perfect he was the love of my life. Then all of a sudden we split and he said to me that we could still be friends and that we will talk to each other. I texted him and texted him all he will do is look at the text and say nothing back it's like he doesn't care about me anymore. I don't know what to do all I want, is to have him back.
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My best friend who I call a sister moved to Tennessee and she's thirteen hours away and it feels hopeless ????
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I had a friend who i'd known since kindergarten basically, and we were bffs. But, since our differences where so great, we started to grow apart. She was very sporty athletic kinda girl, I was kinda the nature outdoorsy type. We were great friends till the end of elementary school. During summer break, we didn't see each other. When sixth grade rolled around, we only smiled and said hi in the halls when we passed. About 3/4ths of the way through 6th grade I realized, I'd lost her. It broke my heart to see how we'd been best friends just 7-8 months ago, and now… well, I still think about her, two years later, in 8th grade. Seeing her in the hallway during passing period, it's just a painful reminder of how much I actually miss her. I can't not forget the smiles, the laughs, the sleepovers, the play dates, and the "parties" we've had together as little kids. We live in the same neighborhood, and I remember her house because it's right across from our old elementary. It's also right at the entrance to the neighborhood, so whenever we drive by, I just look at it. I can't help not looking. I don't know how to deal with it. She was my only friend at the time, and it took moving in a different house in the neighborhood to get a new friend. That was in seventh grade. It took me a year and 1/2 to get a new friend.
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I miss a girl I was in school with, she quite quickly became the love of my life and she was the only person I ever wanted to talk to and meet up with. Now 4 years after I first met her, she's gone to university and now I know i'm only going to see her about twice a year when previously I saw her nearly every weekday. The pain is just too much I don't even talk to anyone else. Just want her back here.
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