Thanks.. the pointer helps...thou not all because it wasn't a broken relationship but just a temporary get away since he needs to be back his homeland and i am left with mine after a first time meeting and have just spent 23 wonderful and lovely days together.. somehow i felt half of my heart he had brought with him.. don't know if if feels equally the same but i'm sure we had a mutual affection and love for each other.. just the same so thankful because the first few days is really getting me so hard to cope up. and this some pointers might help me moving up.. anyways there is much more to look forward to as the level of our relationship goes into a higher level.. again, thanks much! your article is well appreciated! ;-) - gemma

Reading everyone post somehow helps Thanks guys :) It makes me feel more normal. My best friend has run off and not told us where he is going and when he will return and it's made me so worried. I miss him loads and am really lonely right now. I have lost many poeple in my life-e.g people have died or friends have just simply moved on and yes i miss them sometimes but i have thought about it and it was the right action for them at the time so i've come to accept it. But my friend has run away and his Mum is worried like seriously worried and he may have been depressed and i keep haveing dreams where he kills himself cause he is so depressed. I don't think he will though, but I tend to believe dreams more than i should.I just hope he contacts us soon--i may get a private detective to find him though just so we can check he is safe and mentally stable. I guess my main problem is the ambiguity of the situation--is he ok?? is the main question.

Theres this girl i am inlove with. For 3 years of me only seeing pictures of her on social media i met her in person. Its weird how we met, we come from the same city, recently i moved to a new city hours away from home to live on a campus at my school. A few months go by and she pops up at my school and started going to school with me. I was so shy i couldnt talk to her without running away in fear lol. I finally grew the balls to speak to her, took me a while but soon enough we started dating. Our relationship got bad because i didnt like the way she talked to other people being flirtatious. So we broke it off. Now shes moved on pretty quickly about a day after we broke up and every day i have to see her and this other person in my face. Im trying to move on with someone else but its hard after i fell so hard for this girl i crushed on 3 years straight. I want to leave but if i do i will have no home to go to because im not from this city and i know nobody at all. I have not the first clue what i should do to move on. I cry every night because i miss her so much. Seeing this girl i fell inlove with kissing somebody else is so terribly heartbreaking i can honestly say i do not want to be alive anymore. Suicide is the easiest way out. I cant run away and go home, i have no home or family here. I cant hide from her because this campus is so small everywhere i turn shes right there, i cant imagine us being friends when i still have to see her and this other person together all the time. I cant live like this anymore i feel so muh hatred for myself.

I miss this girl who I had a crush on, but I never got the guts to talk to her. Now, I have moved away, and I don't see her anymore.

Jazz!! Very worried to read your comment amd cant write to you personally? Please get help and support, talk to someone about your feelings. You need to see a counsellor, or doctor to get help xxx

So there was this girl that I had a crush on for like half a year,she was my close friend's girlfriend.but had I a crush on her way before he was with her,I guess he was the one with the guts.I talked to her on a dare,so I tried to flirt,it was really obvious to her,but she played along.we just became friends ,5 months or so later,she broke up.i couldn't hold my feelings any longer ,so I told her.she politely declined.every now n then I bother just to ask how is she.normaly we use to talk a lot , but now it just seems so distant.im forcing myself not to talk to her anymore,but it's going slow and hard.everyday i think about her,which makes me said .almost everything reminds me about her,every song,scenery,movie,quote basically everything leads to me thinking about her.i still miss her ,but there is practically -3882828% of anything happening.So I guess it's time to burn bridges?

I miss a man. He loves cat. He would probably save all stray cats he found. He bought food for my friends. He bought food for my family whenever he send me home. I've been so loyal to him and cherish his existence everyday. I've rejected all propose from other guy for him. I never ask him money or anything.. He felt waiting for me to graduate is like a century..whilst just hv a couple year left... He decides his marriage with someone else, in the middle of our relationships. I hv move on some how.. However, i can't help myself from jealousy when to think about childrens he got with someone else. I am breaking and torn.

I just miss my boyfriend our relationship is great It's just that when i see him, then one of us goes home, j miss him, and he doesn't have a phone so I text him through his moms phone and his moms at work right now so I can't text him. #relationshipproblems

Well I really liked this guy and I won't be able to see him cause his in boarding school and he loves this other girl .but last night before he went to new York buffola he was talking to me until 3 am and I have been liking him for years. And years. And last night he had his legs wrapped around mine and couldn't. Talk cause he saw how pretty my eye were. And he put his hand all over my lower back and lower.but his been loving that other girl since. The 3rd grade I don't know what to do and this morning. I didn't drop him to the airport or said goodbye cause I fell asleep.just thinking about him gets me upset cause. He has to go threw nonsense. But then that girl might have moved. On cause that was since 3 grade

I miss my best friend because she goes to a boarding school that doesn't allow phones. I can only contact her in summer, winter break, and spring break. All I have of her is a bracelet that she broke when we were on a cruise together. Tonight I put it together again and it made me miss her so much again. Yesterday was the last day I will talk to her until spring.